An
age old question that has eluded women for such a long time. How can
I get him to pay more attention to me? What makes make him tick? What
is he thinking right now? Women can come up with tons and tons of
questions on the subject of what men really want in a woman but I
would like to concentrate on just three key ones for right now.
Men want conquest. It is every man's dream to leave his mark and accomplish something that will withstand the test of time. Just think of all the noteworthy men who have remained famous throughout the years. They too wanted to make a lasting impression on society and they accomplished their goal. Many of you were probably thinking that I was just talking about sexual conquest when I brought this up. While we will get into sex later, men mainly have a need to be working towards something and our eyes are always big so we want to reach for the stars.
Men want conquest. It is every man's dream to leave his mark and accomplish something that will withstand the test of time. Just think of all the noteworthy men who have remained famous throughout the years. They too wanted to make a lasting impression on society and they accomplished their goal. Many of you were probably thinking that I was just talking about sexual conquest when I brought this up. While we will get into sex later, men mainly have a need to be working towards something and our eyes are always big so we want to reach for the stars.
Men also want sex. I know that most of you are thinking, "That's obvious. Even I knew that." The fact still remains that men are very physical creatures. Men love physical touch, so a seductive brush across his chest will get him to follow you anywhere. Sex is the culmination of physical touch for men and men equate physical touch to women's emotions. So to men, when you have sex, it means that you are totally into them. To use a cliche, men are physical in nature while women are more emotional. I really don't think anyone will argue with that, so is it any breakthrough that men want physical touch? The answer is no, and of course men want to have the best. So what is the best physical touch? Yes, of course, sex.
Finally, men want a challenging woman. This means that you have to keep it interesting for him ladies. Most men say that they don't want women who play games, and they are right. They don't want women who play games they have no chance at winning. The point I am trying to make here is that if you are too available, then the attraction of the man will fade. If you jump at any and every opportunity to see him and he begins to expect this, you are removing any challenge and the attraction will fade. Have him be the one chasing you sometimes and don't do all the chasing yourself.
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