LOVE LIFE MATTERS

COMMUNICATION C ommunication is the decisive point of all relationships, and if the communication is not consistent then your relationship will not be strong. Not just talking about your feelings, but listening is also important. When your partner is unleashing his or her emotions, make it evident that you are taking what he or she says into consideration. Show a sincere interest in things that are important to him or her, regardless if it is a minor thing or a major thing. If your significant other notifies you of an aspect of your personality or behavior that he or she dislikes that is within reason, try hard to prevent yourself from doing such things in the future. You may not be able to eliminate that annoying habit completely, but the effort that you show will be enough to satisfy that person. PROBLEMS E veryone has issues; however, the key is dealing with that issue and not allowing it to influence your relationship. Everyone goes through obstacles and stre...

An age old question that has eluded women for such a long time. How can I get him to pay more attention to me? What makes make him tick? What is he thinking right now? Women can come up with tons and tons of questions on the subject of what men really want in a woman but I would like to concentrate on just three key ones for right now. Men want conquest. It is every man's dream to leave his mark and accomplish something that will withstand the test of time. Just think of all the noteworthy men who have remained famous throughout the years. They too wanted to make a lasting impression on society and they accomplished their goal. Many of you were probably thinking that I was just talking about sexual conquest when I brought this up. While we will get into sex later, men mainly have a need to be working towards something and our eyes are always big so we want to reach for the stars. Men also want sex. I know that most of you are thinking, "That's obvious. Even I knew that....

Here is a common story that one is likely to have heard at some stage or the other in their life. A woman meets a man; say Rachel meets Tom who is a wonderful, warm man. She feels a strong attraction for him right away. With time, Rachel's feelings for Tom grow from lukewarm to warm and then finally too hot. So far Tom has been open and friendly but has never expressed anything more than that. Now Rachel starts getting impatient and wants to know how Tom feels about her. After stalling it for a while, she finally tells Tom how she feels about him. Tom's response to her feelings is relaxed and positive at the start. For a while, his relationship with Rachel remains unchanged. He is still gentle, helpful and generally affectionate. Rachel begins to think that their relationship has a future and she starts looking forward to it more and more. As weeks turn to months, his calls start falling in number, the meetings become rare and even before Rachel realizes, Tom has vanished...